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January 30th, 2026

Shopping addiction and compulsive buying: Signs, symptoms and side-effects

Shopping addiction is not about enjoying a bit of retail therapy or treating yourself to the occasional shopping spree. It is a serious behavioural addiction that affects around 5% of the UK population. That is around 3.35 million people, and while women in their late teens and early twenties are most at risk, shopping addiction can affect anyone. The behaviour follows the same pattern as drug or alcohol addiction, activating identical reward pathways in your brain, and causing just as much pain and potential harm.

woman struggeling for shopping

What is shopping addiction?

Shopping addiction means you have lost control over your buying behaviour, in spite of the negative effects on your life. It is also known as “compulsive buying disorder” and oniomania, and is when you purchase items you do not need and often cannot afford, driven by compulsive urges you cannot resist.

Shopping addiction is a complex condition because it can look like you are just overspending or love to shop. However, people with an addiction are not shopping because they need or even want new things. They do it to fill an emptiness inside, or because the act of buying temporarily makes them feel better.

However, after the purchase, guilt and shame often flood in, sometimes alongside panic about money. When those feelings become overwhelming, and you shop again to escape them, that is when the dangerous cycle begins.

How does shopping addiction develop?

Chemically speaking, shopping addiction actually works surprisingly similarly to an alcohol or drug addiction. Each purchase triggers a dopamine release in your brain, which is the chemical that creates feelings of pleasure and reward.

For most people, that is a pleasurable but relatively important mood boost, which they never come to rely on. However, some people’s brains can crave it more than others, particularly if there is something going on under the surface which really needs the relief dopamine can bring.

Over time, you need more purchases to get the same good feeling, just like you need more drugs or alcohol when you become tolerant to their effects. This means you start spending more than before, go on longer and longer shopping trips, and spend less and less time with your family or doing other important things.

Shopping addiction really takes hold when you realise you can’t stop, even though you desperately want to. This is a dangerous situation, and you need to get help to prevent life-altering problems.

How to spot compulsive buying and shopping addiction signs

Shopping addiction can be difficult to spot because we all need to buy things regularly. Some people can even be in shopping addiction denial because they are still financially secure. But if you spot any of these shopping addiction signs, you should take them seriously:

  • Regularly spending money you do not have, and getting into serious debt
  • A house full of items you have never used
  • Shopping when you feel stressed, anxious, depressed, bored, or lonely
  • Experiencing a rush of excitement when buying something, then guilt or shame right afterwards
  • Hiding purchases from family or lying or arguing about how much you spent
  • Shopping that interferes with work, relationships, or daily responsibilities
  • Feeling anxious or irritable when you can’t shop

unhappy woman after shopping

Why is shopping addiction addictive?

The way shopping works on dopamine and your brain is why it can become habit-forming. But there are also usually other things that make you vulnerable to shopping addiction:\

Emotional reasons
People often turn to shopping when they feel down or stressed because buying something new offers a short break from those feelings. However, the urge to buy can then become stronger whenever you’re troubled, and this creates an emotional reliance.
Personality types
Some people are naturally more impulsive or sensitive to stress, which makes resisting temptation harder. Others use shopping to manage low self-esteem or to buy expensive things to project confidence, though this is only a temporary plaster.
Shopping addiction and mental health factors
Conditions such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, ADHD, or obsessive-compulsive patterns can all make people more likely to use spending as a way to soothe or stabilise themselves. This is usually only a temporary solution, and in many cases, addiction aggravates the original mental health condition.
Social pressure and modern culture
It has never been easier to spend, and adverts and social media constantly show “perfect” lifestyles that make people feel they need to keep up. Online shopping has completely revolutionised how we shop, and studies have even shown that 76% of people get more excited about purchases arriving in the post than items bought in shops.

What are the dangers of shopping addiction and compulsive buying?

The dangers of shopping addiction affect more than your bank balance, and can really harm you and your family:

Financial problems
Money is often the first sign that something is wrong, and like gambling addiction, compulsive buying can ruin your finances. The stress of trying to juggle debts can cause sleepless nights and arguments with your loved ones, and debt can eventually spiral beyond your means.
Emotional and mental health impact
The temporary high of buying is often followed by guilt, shame, or regret. Long-term, shopping addiction can cause or worsen anxiety and depression, and leave you isolated and incredibly lonely.
Relationship strain
Shopping addiction rarely stays private, and when partners or relatives discover the debt, it can ruin or end relationships. Some people spend money needed for mortgages, rent, or living expenses, or jeopardise their children’s future by spending university savings or other important money.
Social and work consequences
The pressure of managing debt and emotional distress can spill into all other areas of your life, affecting your job, education, and friendships. You may spend all your time at work online shopping, stop doing homework because you are out buying things, or even start shoplifting if you can’t afford new purchases. All of this can cause big problems for your future.

What does shopping addiction recovery involve?

Recovery from shopping addiction starts with an honest look at your spending habits and what lies beneath them. There is no detox in the medical sense, but the first stage of stopping or cutting back can bring a kind of withdrawal that needs real professional guidance.

Residential behavioural rehab provides a sanctuary from spending triggers, with therapy that focuses on what is driving your need to shop. Once these issues are better understood and managed, you can think about setting limits, managing your finances better, and rebuilding and repairing your relationships.

Relapse prevention planning and post-rehab aftercare then prepare you for returning to everyday life. This may include budgeting support, alumni communities, and help finding local support groups and meetings.

We know how isolating a shopping addiction can feel, but help is available. Contact us today to explore proven treatment options and start building a life that feels full without needing to buy more.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is shopping addiction officially recognised?
Shopping addiction is recognised by mental health professionals as compulsive buying disorder, though it is not yet included in the main diagnostic manuals like the DSM or ICD. In a 2021 study, 138 specialists from 35 countries agreed it should be classified as a behavioural addiction and laid out the diagnostic criteria.
How do I know if I have a shopping addiction or just enjoy shopping?
Everyone enjoys shopping sometimes, but shopping addiction means you cannot control the behaviour despite serious consequences. Shopping addiction also involves intense emotional cycles, like anxiety before purchasing, brief euphoria during, and then crushing guilt afterwards.
Can I ever shop normally again after treatment?
This really depends. Some people can return to controlled shopping with strict boundaries after treatment. However, many find that complete abstinence from unnecessary shopping is the only way to prevent a relapse. Your rehab treatment team will be able to advise you on the best way forward, especially in the first months of recovery.

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